What is Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)
Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) is a broad term that encompasses relationship styles where individuals engage in multiple romantic, sexual, or intimate connections with the full knowledge and consent of all involved.
Unlike infidelity, ENM is based on open communication, mutual agreement, and respect for boundaries.
It is also referred to as Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).
ENM varies from person to person—some prioritize deep emotional connections, while others focus on sexual exploration.
The foundation of ENM is honesty, not secrecy.
In these relationships, partners may:
- Maintain a primary partnership while embracing non-traditional commitments
- Engage in multiple relationships at the same time
- Have the freedom to explore romantic or sexual connections with others
- Practice full transparency about their external relationships
Core Principles of ENM
✔ Honest Communication – Open discussions about boundaries, expectations, and emotions.
✔ Consent & Agreement – Everyone involved is aware of and agrees to the relationship structure.
✔ Respect & Trust – Treating all partners with care, consideration, and honesty.
✔ Emotional Intelligence – Managing jealousy, insecurities, and emotions in a healthy way.
✔ Autonomy & Freedom – Allowing individuals to explore connections without ownership or control.
Each ENM relationship is unique, shaped by the values, preferences, and agreements of those involved. As we explore this topic further, we'll take a closer look at different ENM styles and how they work in practice.