Events

  Adult Book Club meets monthly on our Discord channel. Each month we explore thought-provoking books that inspire conversation around relationships, identity, growth, and community — all within a welcoming, affirming space.  https://discord.gg/ZEbQWXe65h 

An evening of friendship, connection, and community among those who practice ethical consensual swinging and ethical consensual non-monogamy. All relationship styles and levels of experience are welcome. 

Enjoy a relaxed night out to meet new friends, share stories, and find fellowship in an affirming, judgment-free space.

📍 Location: Lone Buffalo, Ottawa Illinois (Ask for Amanda reservation)

Our LGBTQIA+ Social is a monthly gathering dedicated to creating space for connection, friendship, and belonging within the queer community.

This relaxed and affirming evening welcomes individuals across the spectrum of gender identities, sexualities, and relationship styles.  Come as you are to share conversation, laughter, and community in a safe, inclusive environment. Whether you’re new to the area or already part of community this is your space to connect and unwind. 

  Escape the ordinary for a weekend where literature, luxury, and connection come together. Enjoy a stunning loft stay featuring rooftop hot tubs, a sauna, private theater, gym, and cozy lounges perfect for reading, reflection, or a little flirtation. Two nights of lodging, daily brunch and dinner, curated discussions, quiet reading time, and a spicy Kinky Play Party where stories come to life. Swag Book Box filled with reads and treats to keep. 

 Let’s close out the year with community, connection, and kink.
Join us for an evening of reflection, laughter, and play featuring an open discussion on our journeys in lifestyle spaces, a Taco & Nacho (or cozy soup) bar, and full dungeon access for exploration and joy. Enjoy raffles supporting the NCSF, meet local vendors, and celebrate the year surrounded by affirming, consent-forward energy

  Join us for an unforgettable night of movement, laughter, and kink! Featuring a class with SunnyFlwr_BBW, a playful Adult Dodgeball Tournament (from warm-up to full nudity rounds), a community potluck, and a fully equipped dungeon party for exploration and connection. Registration required to receive location details.
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 Join us for an evening of elegance, etiquette, and connection at our mid-level protocol Service Dinner—a formal event where service and D/s dynamics come to life. Enjoy a hands-on workshop, a five-course served dinner and cocktail hour, and a consent-forward dungeon play party. Open to all experience levels. Formal attire required. 🎟️ Click Here for tickets 

 Join us for a weekend of education, play, and community under the stars! Enjoy kink classes, open dungeon nights, vendors, games, a silent auction, and campfire. Experience connection, consent, and adventure in a welcoming, inclusive space.  Click here for Registration